What I am working on

Where each thing actually stands, including the ones I have not started.

Every change to this page is recorded with a date in the history of the site. I cannot backdate anything here, or quietly turn a red into a green and pretend it was always that way. That is the only thing on this whole site you do not have to take my word for.

Done means finished. Doing means underway. Not yet means not started.

• Doing Therapy, for myself Not couples work. Mine. There is no good reason this is still red.
• doing Letting a no land the first time The one underneath everything else. I get it wrong often.
• doing Sitting with an unresolved fight overnight Without driving anywhere, calling, or continuing until it resolves.
• Doing Building a life in Philadelphia Friends of my own there. I had none, and that is how one person ended up carrying all of it.
• done Written down what happened, honestly All of it, including the parts that are mine.
• not yet Paying you back Obviously behind schedule, and I will try my best to start by Jan 2027.
• done Chase debt closed It will remain that way.
• done Finances separated June. It should not have taken someone else asking.
• doing Cooking properly Since the middle of June. Still going.
• doing The gym Since April 2025. This one was already working. My lastest InBody scan was encouraging. Weight was 157 lbs. 24.6 Body Fat%.
• doing CFA Studying but failing to hit the deadline I guess. Moved it to November.
• almost done. Closing my debt. Consolidating and paying it off using Robinhood. Only SoFi Left. All else done.

Last updated 28 July 2026.